How to give a mind blowing Blowjob

Blow job, Oral sex, Giving Head, Going Down, Fellatio, sucking off; whatever you call it, let’s be honest receiving oral sex can be the biggest turn on and intimate way for someone to make your knees go weak!

Is there really a wrong way to give head? When someone entrusts you to have their genitals in your mouth then you owe it to them and to yourself to make it a memorable experience, so rather than focus on the wrong way lets concentrate on the right way to give a mind blowing blow job or make a woman scream your name with your head clamped between her thighs. Today is all about the guys though.

Let’s start with the basics; hygiene is a must, a necessity the very epitome of being willing and wanting to go down there in the first place. Perhaps to start things off you could indulge in a little water play with a shower or a bath before you deign to open wide.

A hot steamy shower or bath, massaging a sweet smelling lather into your lovers skin is in itself the perfect way to start the foreplay off and to set the scene and the sensual, sexy mood that will hopefully carry you through a sultry night. Keep it teasing and sensual but withhold from the main event until you are both squirming for more.

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Once you know you are both sweet smelling and as clean as your dirty minds allow then move things back to dry land, ready for round 2.

Set the mood; Now everyone is different obviously and hopefully you know your lover well enough to decide whether diving down under without prelude or teasing and testing for a while longer is the key, personally I think that keeping that teasing, tantalizing atmosphere going is a sure fire way to get you both begging for more.

How about picking up that massage from the shower with some delicious massage oil or even a massage candle, the intimacy and relaxing time will heighten the sensations to come. Keep the massage light and teasing, you don’t want to send your lover to sleep, you want to wake up their body as well as their mind. We will expand on this more in a future blog, but for now use your hands and fingers as a reminder of your desire, a teasing caress along the inner thigh but not touching anything else, a lingering kiss along the back of the neck, a finger nail lightly scratching his back, all keeps things sensual and sexy and the excitement and anticipation building.

So now he is all oiled up and standing to attention, it’s time to get busy. Eye contact is a massive turn on for most guys when it comes to oral. Make sure to keep it sexy not creepy! Don’t hold his gaze for more than a few seconds at a time but just enough for him to register the desire and intention in your eyes. Now do you want him stood up or laid prone beneath your searching tongue?

Benefits to both positions really so personal preference come into play here. Let’s have our man on his feet this time, you have a lot of control this way and can pace things to your own comfort and capabilities. So how about a last lingering kiss on his lips before you start your descent. Make that last lip lock full of promise and desire, maybe catch his lower lip gently between your teeth before breaking contact. Make your intentions clear with a sultry look and begin making your way down, lower and lower.

Some gentle caress’s across his chest, down the muscles of his arms, his stomach. Pause a moment here and focus on the soft sensitive skin across his stomach and hips. Now try not to tickle him, laughter in the bedroom can be a good thing but right now it’s all about the serious business of what waits for you just a little lower.

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Use your hands, finger tips, lips and tongue to drive him wild as you bring yourself to your knees in front of him. Get comfortable; you could be here for a while so ideally you will be resting on a cushion or pillow or at least a carpeted floor to protect your knees, there’s nothing worse than a cramp or pins and needles when you’re in the midst of some afternoon delights.

Lets get busy; Once you are eye to eye with his crown jewels, there are some great tricks that will have him panting and begging for more. Rather than diving in face first linger a while just using feather light touches with your finger tips, along the length of his cock, from base to tip and all around, tease until his manhood is twitching and straining for you. Let him feel your hot breath, this will excite him, knowing how close your lips are to capturing him in your warm, inviting mouth. Pay some attention to his balls too, these can be massively sensitive for a guy so a cupping them gently as if testing their weight, or a teasing finger or tongue tracing their sensitive skin will have him bucking his hips searching for you.

When you gauge that he is ready then it’s time to use your lips, mouth and tongue. Try brushing just your lips along the length of him, mimicking what you were doing with your fingertips. Flick your teasing tongue now and then and begin savouring every inch of him.

The head of the penis is very sensitive and has lots of nerve endings so focus here for a moment and circle him with your tongue, it’s at this point that you will want to engage both your hands and your mouth so the control is all yours and you can keep him from thrusting further than you want by using your hands on his length. Grip firmly but keep your tongue soft and teasing for now.

Now it all depends on how big your guy is as to how much of him you want or are able to fit into your mouth without causing that hideous gag reflex. This is again where your hands come in, well handy! If you aren’t comfortable with having him ram your mouth then use your gripped hands as an extension of your mouth, hands at the base and mouth at the head. Using your hands and mouth in unison will give the illusion of his cock being bigger than it really is as well as all his inches getting equal stimulation without gagging over his cock. If this does happen though then why not whisper a little about how it’s because he is so big? Believe me any kind of ego boost like that will win you even more sexual brownie points.

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Slide the head of his penis between your lips, swirl around now and then with your tongue and increase the pressure of your lips to encase him. Slowly slide as much as his length into your mouth with a firm grip and begin moving up and down, keep your hands busy too, on his length or fondling his balls but don’t leave them idle. Maybe even slide round to cup his ass if you’re comfortable with your movements and that he won’t catch you unawares with a deep thrust of his hips. Or maybe keep your hands on his hips and control his movements too. You want to try and mimic penetrative sex to a degree but remember sometimes it’s fun to bring him back down to earth a little and then taking him back up again at your own pace.

Tantalise your senses; Back to eye contact, a seductive glance up through your lashes to meet his eye will give him a visual delight as well as physical by seeing you bringing him pleasure with your mouth full. Remember though sexy not creepy.

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Another thing to remember is if he believes you’re having fun this will make him relax and enjoy it even more. It’s quite a turn on to know you are bringing pleasure to someone else so have fun! A few moans and a bit of dirty talk here and there won’t hurt either. Sex is about sensations and the sounds are as much part of that as the touching so be a bit vocal. Just know when to shut up as well!

Location Location Location; Now there are a few extra sensitive spots on a guys package so pay these homage too, the little bump underneath where the shaft meets the head is called the frenulum and a bit of tongue action here will have him writhing.

The rim and head itself are also very sensitive so some lingering action here is a must.

Again the balls, don’t forget them, gently does it though… teasing strokes, gentle cupping or a tickling tongue work well here.

The underside of the base of the penis is another sensitive spot as well as trailing round from his balls towards his anus, the perineum is extremely effective spot for untold pleasure; you could use a figure of 8 movement here to go round the base of the penis as the first part of the 8 coming round to below his balls for the 2nd part and back around, this hits 2 spots at once.

How about the raphe, it’s the thin seam that runs dead centre along the underside of his scrotum from top to bottom, and it’s teeming with tingly nerve endings.

Men either really dig having their R-spot stimulated or feel it’s too intense for them, so experiment with touching it briefly every 20 to 30 seconds as you stroke his penis during foreplay. Keep gauging his reaction to start with and make sure it’s not too intense.

Use your fingers or place your tongue at the back of his scrotum, where it attaches to his body, and slide it along his raphe, and continue tracing your tongue over the top of his scrotum and then up the underside of his member until you get to the head of his penis.

The question; Finally to spit or not to spit?? Real personal one here. What guys eat can have a massive effect on how there come tastes. Certain foods can give it a bit of a funky taste so if it’s all a bit unsavoury for you then by all means spit. Try not to hack it out as if its burning you, keep it in your mouth for a second and either discreetly dispose of into some tissue or pop to the bathroom or if that’s all a bit too much for you how about getting him to come over your body, your breasts of stomach can be a visual stimulation for him. Perhaps avoid the face though, temporarily blinded by semen or globs in your hair may spoil the mood for both of you.

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If you feel happy to swallow then go ahead and knock it back; he will certainly be appreciative.

Although a lot of guys don’t actually want to come this way and will save you from having to contemplate the big question. Whichever way it concludes, have fun, keep it fresh and different, try new things and don’t think of it as a job!!

Why not try;

-your man will be eating out of the palm of your hand if you surprise him with a blow job when he is least expecting it. When he walks in from work, as soon as you walk into his place or maybe a whispered “how about a blow job when we get home?” When you’re out and about.

-flavoured lube for a fresh taste or guess what flavour game, or chocolate body paint or cream

-play with temperatures, hot and cold can bring different stimulations but not too extreme for those temperatures

-a mini vibrator around his anus, perineum and balls will definitely add a buzz

-massage his prostate gland (located about an inch inside the anus on the front side of the body, a walnut sized bulb of tissue that if you massage with a “come hither” motion you will be stimulating his G spot) massage from outside the body on the perineum or for even more intensity from inside , you can do this with your finger or how about a prostate massager?

No No; Hopefully the one thing I don’t have to remind you of is NO TEETH!

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